Most of you know that Brian and I have only one car right now. We have been doing this since last June when the lease on my car ran out. We have survived this long, but am afraid it is almost time to get a second vehicle. It works out most days, but some, we have to get VERY creative.
On some of the days, we take Brian to work so we can have the car and get out of the house. Brian always leans in and gives Kaylee a hug and a kiss before grabbing his bag from the backseat. The past few times of doing this, Kaylee immediately responds, "hug, hug." It just melts my heart.
Today was no different. I know Brian is smiling on the inside too:) Then, we go to Church for a Moms n Tots group. It was great group until I picked Kaylee up.
This is the "and then.... part." I am told we had an "incident." Kaylee apparently bit another child on the finger and then would not play nice the rest of the time after sitting in time-out. Now I know what it is like to hear people say that they feel like a failure at times in parenting.
(before the Grandmas get worked up, we are fine.) I know she is only 19 months old, but where is she learning this? I also know that this is her first time doing it so maybe I shouldn't get worked up about it just yet. I was hoping by watching another child in the house she would learn to share and get along with others. I have really been feeling like we need to get out more and meet up with other people, especially some of children more her age too. Which is what is going to require another vehicle. I am trying to figure out if this is really what we need, or if the "winter blues" is just getting to me too.
On a better note, I am taking Kaylee to a gymnastics class tomorrow. It is put on by our Parents as Teachers program and I am very excited. Kaylee has been finding about any object she can in the house to do a pull up on, crawl through, or jump on, so I think this is going to be good for her. It is only one day, but then we will see how she does with other kids tomorrow too and see if she can follow some directions:)